If you’ve had an abortion before, it’s understandable that you may not want to go through it again. If you’ve recently discovered you’re pregnant, you may feel anxious or unsure about your next steps.
You have two options: you can choose to raise your child or explore adoption. Taking time to learn about both choices can help you make a decision that feels right for your life, values, and future.
No matter what, you don’t have to face this alone. Support is available to help you through your pregnancy.
Considering Parenting
Becoming a parent is a life-changing decision, and feeling uncertain or unprepared is normal. You might wonder if you have what it takes or how this choice could affect your future. These feelings are common, especially when facing an unexpected pregnancy.
Start by considering the support you already have. Do you have friends, family, or a partner who can help you emotionally or practically? Building a strong support system can make a significant difference as you prepare for this new chapter.
You don’t have to do it all alone. There are many resources available to help you succeed as a parent, including parenting classes, one-on-one mentoring, material assistance for essentials like diapers and clothing, and even community programs.
These resources can help you navigate the challenges and joys of parenthood, giving you the tools you need to create a nurturing environment for your child while still pursuing your goals.
Parenting may feel daunting, but many parents discover that the rewards outweigh the challenges. With the right support and resources, you can provide your child with love, stability, and care.
Exploring Adoption
If parenting doesn’t feel like the best option for you, adoption offers another loving path. Modern adoption is flexible, allowing you to create a plan that fits your unique circumstances.
As the birth mother, you are in charge of the adoption process. You can choose the family you feel will provide the best home for your child and decide how much involvement you want in their life.
Here are the three main types of adoption:
- Open Adoption: You can choose the adoptive family and maintain an ongoing relationship with your child through visits, calls, or updates.
- Semi-Open Adoption: This option allows for some communication, usually facilitated through the adoption agency, while keeping identifying information private.
- Closed Adoption: If you prefer privacy, you can choose a closed adoption. The adoption agency will match your child with a family, and there will be no contact after placement.
Adoption is a deeply personal decision that can provide a hopeful future for your child while allowing you to focus on your own goals and dreams.
You Are Not Alone
Abortion is not your only option. Sumter Pregnancy Center is here to support you every step of the way. We offer no-cost pregnancy services in a compassionate and confidential environment.
Whether you’re considering parenting or adoption, we can help you find the resources and support you need to make the best decision for you and your baby.
Schedule your no-cost appointment today and let our caring team provide you with answers, encouragement, and help as you navigate this important moment in your life.