An unexpected pregnancy can present new challenges for you and your partner as you navigate your relationship. What will you decide? Will you make the decision together?
Maybe you’re off to a rocky start. If you and your partner aren’t seeing eye to eye on what to do next, take a deep breath. We’re here to help.
Schedule an appointment at Sumter Pregnancy Center for a safe and confidential space to receive early pregnancy services and discuss your situation. We’re here for you both.
Keep reading for some things to consider as you navigate pregnancy and your relationship.
1. What Is the Status of Your Relationship?
With your partner pressuring you into a pregnancy decision, like an abortion, it’s essential to evaluate your relationship status.
Does this person have your best interests at heart? Is he listening to your concerns, thoughts, and disagreements? How have things been going?
It’s unfair for him to pressure you into any decision you are uncomfortable making. If you see this relationship working out in the long term, expressing your concerns and ensuring he understands your side is vital. You do not have to stay in an unhealthy relationship.
If you’re currently in an abusive relationship, reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline for assistance. You can find freedom from a toxic situation.
2. How Much Time Have You Given Him to Process?
This may be the first time you have ever felt pressured by your partner. If he’s acting out of character, it’s possible that he hasn’t fully processed the news yet and is still reacting.
It’s normal to feel fearful when a significant life change like pregnancy happens unexpectedly. He could need more time to adapt to the news and think things through.
Consider giving him time and space so you both can think about the situation. Talk about it again when you both feel ready.
3. You’re the Final Decision-Maker.
As the pregnant one in the relationship, you are the ultimate decision-maker. While those in a healthy relationship should be able to decide together, you may not reach an agreement.
Make the decision based on what you truly want and desire for the future. This pregnancy decision will impact you the most. Avoid making a decision based on an unstable relationship that might not last.
You Are Stronger Than You Realize.
It takes strength to resist a partner’s pressure, and it’s not easy. If you’re in this situation, hang in there and make your best decision. We can help.
Sumter Pregnancy Center is here to support you. Schedule a no-cost appointment today to receive early pregnancy services, information, and resources for the road ahead. You’ve got this!