You may feel deeply disappointed when you and your partner disagree on a pregnancy decision. You might have thought you’d be on the same page, but you aren’t.
Knowing how to approach this subject sensitively can be difficult, but you’re not alone. Sumter Pregnancy Center provides helpful services. Contact us to speak confidentially today.
Keep reading to learn the top things to consider.
Respect is Crucial
Open dialogue is key to a healthy relationship. Keep communicating and showing that you’re willing to listen.
It is helpful to learn why your partner is considering abortion. Perhaps there are fears she hasn’t felt comfortable sharing, or others are influencing her decision. You can demonstrate that you’re in this together by providing a listening ear.
However, listening doesn’t mean keeping your thoughts and feelings to yourself.
If you are interested in parenting, you may wonder how to approach this subject. There’s a lot to consider, and Sumter Pregnancy Center can help you navigate those conversations.
Discussing All Options Can Open New Doors
After listening to your partner’s perspective on abortion, you may have pinpointed specific concerns, like financial instability or lack of support from family or friends. Discussing those concerns with an unbiased, non-judgmental third party can help her make an informed decision.
One of our team members will discuss your partner’s options: parenting, adoption, and abortion. In addition to addressing the risks and side effects of abortion and exploring what making an adoption plan looks like, we’ll provide information on parenting resources and support.
Ultimately, it’s your partner’s decision. However, her perspective may change after hearing what is available. For example, we provide free parenting courses, help with diapers and other essentials, community referrals, and more.
If your partner does not wish to raise the child but would prefer to give you custody, that is another option. However, you would want to discuss that option with an attorney.
Having these conversations can be tough, and things might feel tense. However, it’s critical to process your own emotions around the pregnancy, give your partner time to navigate hers, and approach the situation as calmly as possible. Emphasizing compassion and respect is crucial.
Here to Help
We know an unplanned pregnancy was probably the last thing on your mind, and it helps to have an experienced team ready to support you. We’re here for you no matter what you’re facing right now.
Make a free and confidential appointment today to discuss your situation in a safe setting.